Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Unprotected sex - Prime reason for population explosion of India.

When we ask anyone what could be the reason for population growth in India? And the most popular answers you will get are uncontrolled birth rate, decrease in death rate and child marriages etc. Perhaps, these are the possible reasons. But the prime reason is because of the consequence of having sex without any protection. Some people believe that child marriage is the major one. But I totally deny it because it doesn’t matter at what age you marry. Let’s look at this issue in to very deeper perspective. We will go to the conclusion step by step.  As we see the graph below, the population has increased tremendously between 1970 and 1990.
India Population Growth - 2011 Census
Sex without Protection
Firstly, there are no entertainment sources during those days not even tourism as it used to be more expensive. The only entertainment source is Sex. Men used to marry or attracted towards marriage only because of the fact that they can participate in sex regularly. As men used to marry between 18 and 21 and they don’t know whether they can without condoms. Even, if they know about it they don’t follow it because of their religious beliefs. So every time they participate in Sex they used to give birth to a baby. And the women folk who bear the brunt whether they enjoy wholesome sex or not, they has to participate and they think that babies are gifts from god and it is their duty to obey their husbands.

Religious Beliefs
Furthermore, the rural population in those days is more when compared to that of urban. As India’s culture, runs very deep and far back in history, most people still used to follow ancient beliefs. So they believe “God said ‘Go forth and produce’ and we just went ahead and did exactly that.” As a result, a lot of families have more children than they actually want or can afford, resulting in increased poverty, lack of resources, and most importantly, an increased population. If don’t believe this fact look at the families during 1970 and 1980. They used to have 6 children, 8 children and so on. I have heard about a family who has 12 children.

Unfortunately, the aforementioned trend was happened from Kashmir to Kanyakumari knowingly or unknowingly. As a result the population was exploded exponentially. Government started measures by distributing free condoms, family planning and more. But the people don’t utilize them because of their superstitiousness. And the result is huge population.


Thursday, February 13, 2014

What is the Best age to get married and give birth

If you want to marry, then marry by the age of 25 years. A recent study by doctors suggests that it is also equally required to think about the age of couple for giving birth to kids. Now a day’s most of the people who are unmarried are sticking to computers in the office and when they get leisure they are just hanging around.



Current Trend
Most of the youth are thinking not to marry during their 20’s because they want to earn as much of reputation in their organization and also create a secured life before having kids. Everyone feels that marriage is a big burden and it disturbs their career goals. As a result its general tendency of the youth to get marries after 30 years.

What doctors suggests?
But doctors are suggesting that this attitude is not good one. Earlier there has been a lot of research done on the women but not on men that which is the best age to give birth to a child. But there is no much evidence on men which is the best time to marry and which is the best time to give birth to a child.

What research tells?
After having a lot of research on 10,000 people by California University, that all the conditions that a women will applies to men as well. According to their research, a man who has an age within 25 years of age has good quality of hormones, DNA when compared that of men who has 30 years of age. They are suggesting men to become as father during their 25 or 26 years. During this age the sexual hormones and sexual organs are very good in terms of count.

What happens for a late marriage?
After the age of 35 the production of number of hormones and DNA will gradually decreases. As a result there are more chances of miss carry by pregnant women and delayed pregnancy. Consequently the children who give birth during that age are very weak and not healthy. This is more evident that children will face much health problems like child behaviour problem neuroscience and brain related problems. It is also possible to dwarfish.

How about the children?
Researchers of University of California tell about the behaviour in children, from the approximately 50 million people on issues related to the investigations on the infant. They easily become sick of if the man who gives birth with age 40 years which accounts 59 percent of children. Women over 30 years of age, the children of men over 40 years old and suffers from many illnesses. The Genetic disorders that may spread to children from their parents are the result of late marriages.  The fact that why the some girls are not healthy because of late marriage by men.

In conclusion it’s good to marry during age of 25 Years. If men delays then there are more chances that he can lose a lot. Youth should always think about the marriage age and they should think about the right time to give a birth. If you want your child to be handsome or beautiful with good healthy values then it’s better to give birth during mid-twenties.